Articles & Videos Reasons Why Some Women Prefer Dating Wealthy Men
Written by: Akua Hinds
April 12, 2024
Women who deliberately pursue men who are wealthy do so because they know that wealth opens doors that poverty cannot open. Have you ever been skeptical about that clichéd saying that “money does not buy happiness?” Well, I have been skeptical of that belief for a long time, and with good reason. Happiness is subjective. My definition of happiness could be completely different to your definition of happiness. And guess what? That is perfectly fine! We are all SUPPOSED to lead our own individual lives, and each person’s pursuit of happiness is something that only they can do for themselves.
The type of relationship that works best for you is something that only you can figure out, and determining what you need involves a combination of experiences and intuition. Sometimes our experiences colour our perspectives and either prevent us from moving past them or, convince us that it is impossible to change direction from what we have already experienced. It is my belief that we as human beings are happier when we have the freedom to choose from an abundance of options. People who are wealthy understand the benefits of freedom. Having the freedom to decide what you want to do for every second of every day is a blessing.
Dating a man who has a mindset of scarcity and lack should scare every single woman. It is easy to say that money doesn’t buy happiness, but it is difficult to believe that when so many people tie their happiness to the types of choices that they are able to make. The choices to drive the car you want, work the career of your dreams, travel whenever and wherever you want, and spend time with friends and family whenever you want are choices that will not make sense to people who are so focused on scarcity that they neglect to see the opportunities they have to create their own wealth and opportunities. Instead of encouraging you to pursue your goals, a man who is struggling financially might persuade you to abandon your dreams because he does not believe that it is possible to move past situations of negativity.
People who are wealthy understand that money is not the root of all evil. Some would argue that poverty is in fact the root of all evil. Wouldn’t you agree that it’s challenging to feel positive when you are struggling to make ends meet? Many people feel discouraged, not encouraged, when they feel desperate and destitute. Is there any wonder why a single woman would prefer to be with a man who is thriving instead of just surviving? No one wants to go to bed angry due to a fight about money at the end of the night.
A study has shown that financial problems contribute to between 20 and 40 percent of divorces. Few if any single women want to start a relationship with someone who does not see a way out of their problems. However, poverty does not need to be a death sentence for a relationship. We all have three options for earning an income; get a job working for an employer, start a business, or do both at the same time (working a job and starting a business). You can change your situation right now by first changing your thinking. It takes one second to change your life. Poverty is not a choice that anyone should accept for themselves if they hope to build a successful relationship.
Money can come and go, and nothing in life is guaranteed, but you will enjoy your life more when you have a healthy relationship with money and feel confident that your partner’s relationship with financial matters is healthy too. If you are struggling financially right now, focus on improving your finances and raise your belief in your abilities to turn things around so that you can contribute to a thriving romantic partnership. All your relationships will flourish when you feel confident and happy with the choices that you create for yourself. Above all, keep a positive attitude as you work through your goals.
Akua Hinds works as a business marketer, journalist, and performing artist. Her 4 dating websites www.InterracialDesires.net, www.RichSinglesDate.net, www.ChristianPartner.co, and www.TrueDates.net help millions of singles worldwide to find their soulmates, and she is also a www.MillionaireMatch.com affiliate. Akua’s romance shop at www.ShopRomance.biz connects adults to the best romance products on the market. Please visit www.AkuaHinds.com for more information.
Akua Hinds works as a business marketer, journalist, and performing artist. Her 4 dating websites www.InterracialDesires.net, www.RichSinglesDate.net, www.ChristianPartner.co, and www.TrueDates.net help millions of singles worldwide to find their soulmates, and she is also a www.MillionaireMatch.com affiliate. Akua’s romance shop at www.ShopRomance.biz connects adults to the best romance products on the market. Please visit www.AkuaHinds.com for more information.