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Relationship Matters

Reasons to Enjoy Being Single

Written by: Akua Hinds

November 10, 2015


Reasons to Enjoy Being Single. Written by: Akua Hinds


Just because a person in single, that doesn’t mean that they are lonely.  Being single can be a hugely satisfying experience, especially if you are taking a time out from romantic relationships for the purpose of focusing on building a better life for yourself.  Everyone who is single has their own personal reasons for being single and there are plenty of reasons why being single is beneficial.  Here are a few of those good reasons to enjoy the single life: 

Your time being single should be used as a time to think about what you want for your future.

Time to think- Relationships can satisfying, but they can also be a distraction.  Most people who are in relationships focus on goals that mutually benefit the couple.  So much time is spent on fulfilling the goals for the relationship that sometimes, a person can ignore their own needs and desires.  Time alone forces a single person to think about what they value in life and how they want to achieve their goals.  A single person might remember that they had always wanted to write a novel, or scale the Rocky Mountains.  Thanks to the freedom that being single brings, those thoughts can to turn into realities because there is no opposition from a disapproving partner. 

Use this time to focus on your goals and dreams before jumping into a new union.

Time to heal- Some relationships take a huge toll on a person, and time apart is necessary for getting over the relationship before a new one starts.  Being single is wonderful if you need to talk to a therapist to work out your issues, read self-help books, and come to terms with why your previous relationship did not work out.  There is no greater feeling in the world than knowing that you are actively striving to be the best that you can be!  Singlehood can help you to figure out how to approach your next relationship in a healthy way.

Time to prepare- Human beings are wired to want to be in loving relationships and there will certainly come a time when your season of singleness will end.  If marriage is a future goal of yours then there is no better time to prepare for it than during your solo time.  Use this period to educate yourself about prenuptial agreements because everyone, rich or poor, should consider having a prenuptial agreement when they get married.  Most people would like to THINK that marriage is a forever institution but the truth is that nothing is guaranteed to last forever.  You can also figure out what you are looking for in a future partner emotionally, financially, spiritually and physically and how to protect yourself if the relationship doesn’t work out.  Start saving your money and make wise investments that will allow you to be more independent whether you start a new relationship or not. 

Spend time with your friends and loved ones, and enjoy all of life's blessings.

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You might be tempted to get lazy while you are single and see singleness as an excuse to let it all hang out and be as undisciplined as you want to be.  Your single time should not be wasted on regressing to becoming a slob, wasting your money getting hammered and partying all of the time with your friends.  This should also not be a time where you trash talk your ex to anyone who will listen.  Instead, this time to think positively, spend quality time with loved ones,  enjoy life’s precious moments, and work towards the type of life you want to build for yourself.  Relationships can be wonderful, but they require consistent time and effort to flourish.  People who are happy and successful in life with themselves usually aim to build happy and successful unions with like-minded individuals.  While you are single, you should work on becoming the best person you can be and enjoy the experience. 

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